So now I'm wondering what kind of vibes I've been sending. Maybe I've been giving the impression all along that I'm not interested. It's possible: I'm introverted and shy, and sometimes I'm reluctant to break out of my routine (a classic introvert move), and I seem to always fail miserably when I try and take the initiative to get something set up. The hubby can get anyone to agree to anything, while I bumble around and can't seem to get an answer out of anyone. Which is PROBABLY why I rarely do things without him - he's the only one who seems to be able to get people to say yes!
So that kind of sucks. How do you go about reversing something like that?